Dangers of self comparism

It's like every one on social media has got their lives in order except you. Don't be discouraged. Keep working on your dreams and if you have to block or unfollow some people please do. Don't let any one pressure you. No bad or negative energy. I remember unfollowing some people on social media. I... Continue Reading →

Been a while

Feeling so sad.... It's been a while three month since I last published a blog post.Don't even know what to say.Am not given to excuses but to be honest, my schedule is super tired and the data consumption rate aren't so pocket friend. Don't worry, am coming back soonest.Hope you are good?Sooo who missed me?

10 simple ways to living a happy life

Happiness is a choice! You can choose to make your life happy regardless of whatever challenges or disappointments you face. Most people think that happiness is some kind of finishing line in a race, some even go as far as depending and waiting on someones else’s approval or validation to be happy. its almost like... Continue Reading →

Rebuilding Nigeria, a Collaborative Effort

I have read and even responded to several reviews and reports of the most recent mass killings. Just one week #PlateauKillings #BodijaButchersandPoliceFight #LagosFireExplosion. Can you imagine the number of lives and properties that have been lost to the tragedy? Not to talk of several displaced person and orphans? The reality is we have lost hundreds... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 13

How forgiving are you? To forgive is to: accept that what happened has happened; it is to choose to find at least some iota of understanding for the other person’s actions, and then decide it’s in your best interest to let it go and move on. Forgiving a person is never about the person but... Continue Reading →

11 Lessons from Mofoluwaso Ilevbare

There are meetings and there are meetings. Some you really just don’t want to miss attending, one of such meetings is the “Treasure Refuge Foundation” organized programmes. The programme holds bimonthly. This month, the guest speaker was Mrs Mofoluwaso Ilevbare. Mofoluwaso Ilevbare is a Godfidence coach, productivity booster, purpose speaker, best selling author and coach.... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation- Week 12

Have you said a heartfelt thank you lately? Many are wrapped up in the vicissitude of life that they forgot to be thankful. Life is full of ups and downs, curves and twist, joys and thrills. In all especially in the curves and twist, it's helpful to develop the attitude of gratitude. "Gratitude unlocks the... Continue Reading →

Thank God for Fathers: Father’s Day 2018

Today is Father's Day. Typically, Father's day is celebrated on the third Sunday of June globally. Am not sure there is a theme for this year's celebration though but we can boldly thank God for fathers. Fathers provide not only comfort but are also the insignia of authority and correction. As I have learnt beneath... Continue Reading →

Reading Goals

Just a litle peep into my world. About 3 weeks ago, I set a goal of reading for 7 hours everyday. To be honest it felt crazy especially because I don't have any exams to write. But I really just wanted to build some intellectual muscles. 7 hours daily, aren't easy. So I did some... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 11

Have you built a system around your goals? Setting goals is cheap. Achieving them is not. Apart from the fact that your goals must be Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic they must be Time Bound. So how do you achieve your goals within a specific Time frame? You can achieve your goals by having a "To... Continue Reading →

Monday motivation: Week 10

How tough are you? Talking a strong game is cheap but bringing it to reality is tough! When the storm come, will you still be standing? Life can be very dramatic and unpredictable. When unprepared battles and challenges comes what will you do? When the storms comes will you still be standing? Talk is cheap.... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 9

Are you phenomenal? Still in the mood of Celebrating mothers day, our Monday motivation will be Maya Angelou' Phenomenal woman. I hope you will be inspired to be a Phenomenal Woman Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size But when I start to tell... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 8

Time wasters: What are you doing about it? So what are time wasters? According to the Collins dictionary, If you say that someone or something is a time waster, you mean that they cause you to spend a lot of time doing something that is unnecessaryor does not produce any benefit. So it's time to... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 7

Are you walking on the path of kindness? The fact is its almost justifiable to ignore those suffering or in lack around you because you have your own problems. The truth however is, we all have our problems. Agreed, maybe in different proportions. But every human has his/her own problems. Having your own problems should... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 6

What is your 20 mile march? In 1911, two team, each headed by Scott and Amunden embarked on a journey to the South Pole. Amunden reached the destination 34 days before Scott despite the harsh weather condition amongst other inconveniences. When asked the secret to the success of the journey, Amunden remarked that he and... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation: Week 4

What are you attracting into your life? "The law of attraction hold that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts people can bring positive or negative experiences into their life." So if you see yourself living in abundance or suffering, you will attract it. In the Holy Bible, God told Abraham "as far as your... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation- Week 3.

Happiness Oh how it seems to elude us despite how hard we try. Every thing seems not to work. The economy is down. The angry faces. The bills. The annoying bosses. The uncooperative staff, colleagues and clients.The unsupportive spouse Even the busy bodies, who always have something to say and even give unsolicited advise. Happiness... Continue Reading →

Monday Motivation- Week 2

What do you believe? People struggle to control their behaviours and actions because they don’t have control over what they choose to believe in. Your behavior and action is influenced by your emotions and feelings. Which in turn is influenced by your thoughts, our thoughts however controls what you believe. In plain English, what you... Continue Reading →

The Goalkeeper Conundrum

The FIFA International break is here again, so players from their respective countries are jeering up for friendly matches  and also tuning up for the world cup which is like some 80 something days away. The super eagles team of Nigeria is also not left out of the action as they are due to play... Continue Reading →

Money Problems? Here’s how to fix it.

Sola stood staring at the calendar; she could hardly believe her own eyes. Just some days ago, when she received the alert, she was so excited. Sola had a list waiting and immediately she started her execution plan. But today, just about 6 days later she was back to being broke and sadly she was still yet to settle some other bills. “Where did all my money go?” she thought. To be frank, Sola was tired of being so broke and living from one pay check to the other. Her 9-5 job was taking so much time and wasn’t yielding much either.

Monday Motivation- Week 1

Turn your dreams to reality.How long do you want to remain in DreamLand?Work your Dreams to life.Give it expression.Breath life to it.Enough of watching others give expression to their dreams.Its time for others to get inspired seeing you breath life to your dreams. Your dreams have stayed too long in dreamland.Start a step at a... Continue Reading →

7 First Date Tips for Mature Singles

Hi lovelies, Today’s blog post is about first date for mature singles by that I mean single who are ready to mingle and probably marry. Here in Nigeria, there is so much pressure on singles to get married particular once you are above 20 years, then when you are 25 or even 30 years old,... Continue Reading →

Mind Yourself #Hephzy’sMusing

A common trend I noticed is the hate and envy trend. People just turn themselves to chief judges over other people's matters or issues. I still don't know why. I wish someone could explain. #sadface The Breaking news is; That person you hate or envy so much might not even be aware or know you... Continue Reading →

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